This is to anyone still in the dating process.
Do not settle.
Do not marry someone just because you want to get married and have kids.
Do not continue to date someone just because you don't want to be single.
It is better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. Much, much better.
My husband is great! But everyone I have known has picked a really bad person to be with/marry etc. at some point and it ruined their whole life almost.
Save yourself the heart ache and be smart about who you yoke up with.
I dated a lot of different guys in the past, but none of them went beyond two months because I knew by then what an idiot they were.
If you realize that someone you are dating is an idiot, or that things probably won't work out, then break up with them.
Don't feel bad. You may somewhat break their heart, but the sooner you break up with them, the easier it will be for them.
You need to take care of yourself, and your future children.
You need to realize what you deserve and not settle for less than that.
Granted there are a lot of bad people out there so it can be a very long, hard process to find a good guy or girl. But eventually, you will. :) Don't worry. :)
You may have to break up with several people first though.
But trust me, in the end, it is so worth it.
Don't settle. Wait for God's best for you. And you will be happy. :)
Amen. May God guide you in finding the best person for you. God bless!
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